Joellie Patrice's Comments

Dear Joellie,

Thank you for the lovely compliment.

You mentioned the problem of the lack of acceptance from your wife. I assume you wanted my thoughts on this typical problem.

The best one can expect from a spouse is toleration in varying degrees. Very few spouses are fully tolerant. Your wife is obviously not even minimally tolerant and the turmoil you say she is experiencing is a serious problem.

In such situations it is often better to assume a spouse is not going to embrace one's dressing. Pushing for understanding will result in increased turmoil and resentment.

All TG's dream of that A+++ understanding spouse. But in most situations it simply is a fantasy. Keep in mind that only other TGs really understand the motivation to dress. So it is best to practice"out of sight out of mind" with a spouse. Limit your dressing away from home with other TGs, support groups and TG functions.

Hope my thoughts are helpful. 

Regards,

Laurie-Ann

Of course Joellie and talk we shall haha:))

awww... That was nice. I wish I can find someone to go out with.

yeah, Joellie, that validation from her made me feel really good...:)

Joellie;

I tried Yahoo apparently you were off line.  I would love to visit with you, I am seriously thinking about going out tonite.  If you send me a text I will jump on Yahoo to visit with you.

Love

Eileen

Joellie:

I will make time available to get together with you.  Please let me know the best way to make contact.

Kisses

Eileen

Joellie:

I also live in Albuquerque New Mexico and would very much like to visit with you, your Profile is very similar to mine.

Eileen