"We are One"
Why Not?
Quite by accident I read the most appropriate reason not to on another blog.
By permission I'm going to pass along the highlights: from "CD Janie's Blog."
"With all the problems and conflict, both internal and external, you’d
think that I’d just want to give the whole thing up and try for
happiness the old-fashioned way. After all, I haven’t burned any
bridges…
Turns out, I love Janie.
Turns out, some of that love I have always felt for women has always been a desire to feel what they feel!
to find them attractive and sexy – and I was, I did – but that was
never all of it for me. I didn’t just want to be with someone who had the feminine characteristics I loved, I wanted to have those kinds of feminine traits myself."
WOW! I've never been good enough to explain to those who ask why?
Janie made it so easy!
Thanks
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Comment by Rachel King on July 29, 2010 at 7:01am -
I am meandering.
I asked "why not" also, for no other reason than someone asked "why".
I didn't "want" that woman I was eyeing off either, I wanted to BE her.
Now I am and I have an incredible amount of happiness within me.
Purging the angry is a task and a half but I am succeeding.
I know that when my little Thaipan (sic) joins me, her love wound around mine will make an incredible bond together.
Why not?
CD Janie answers a lot of questions with one paragraph.
"you’d think that I’d just want to give the whole thing up and try for
happiness the old-fashioned way"
So why not!.............
Dance, in the old-fashioned way.
Won't you stay in my heart.
And we'll discover highs,
we never new before, if we just close our eyes,
and dance across the floor............
Theres a lot to be said for "old-fashioned ways"
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Comment by Shirley on July 29, 2010 at 11:17am -
Hiya Crysti !!
This blog brings back some painful memories - As a young person in my 20s - I remember grappling with the horrible feelings of shame I felt about myself - I suffered from terrible depression - I remember the days, I would try going to a singles dance and approaching some of the ladies for a dance / I was always refused and turned down - I felt like a piece of garbage, left to waste - My confidence level was below "Zero" - I was a very troubled person back then to say the least.
Its amazing how the ladies could see through me back then, as I tried to live a cherade - It turned out for the best over time, as I realized it would be more of a "SIN" to drag an innocent person into my life to see if I could be "Cured" - I stayed honest with myself - The cost of it - being "Loneliness"
Over time - I found that life is about much more than "Gender" - I found new horizons, and ways of exploring new areas of meaningful relationships.... - In one word - my own - "Initiative" - Cellebrating 9 Yrs as "Shirley" now - Not so bad..... not purrrfect !! - But I wouldnt wish to go back to the old days... / Thanks for the post !!
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