Well, here I find myself. A wife, looking for answers. Can I possibly have a husband who has better clothes, nicer shoes, and more sensitivity than ME?? Are there other spouses on here (TG folks too) who can tell me how you've stayed married upon this revelation? Love remains, but companionship dwindles. Desperate for honesty. Does there come a time when pursuit of this alter ego isn't all consuming? Show me some hope, please>?