Vagina!!??

Comment by Jessica Tafoya on September 21, 2012 at 2:33am

"from women."

Comment by Marsha M. Marsha on September 21, 2012 at 5:34am

Jessica you're basically correct that the neo-vagina is an open wound and yes, especially a few weeks after healing, urination tends to be messy until the swelling dissipates.

Also there is more maintenance because along with dilation there is douching. Haing said that the operation has brought to me a wholeness and self awareness I did not know proir. Of course additionally the sensarions during sex are wonderful and very different than the male orgasm. The clitoral orgasm is closer the what the men have in intensity, whereas the vaginal "O" is a wonderful building like an incoming ocean tide.

Frankly, I don't have sex often, but that never was the primary reason I needed to have my vagina.  The operation completed something missing and it aligned my soul to the body. My vagina is not a "one to one" with a GGs, but very close, more so, it  is mine and I am very content.

Yes, I believe this topic is very appropriate here, afterall, where else could we discuss vaginas? Pink Essence is a great place to discover ourself and compare notes.

Comment by Caroline Grace on September 21, 2012 at 8:17am

"Big wound that never heals..." Would that be my heart?

So is the real question here, "Angina or Vagina?" 

And perhaps coining a new term for female GID, "Mangina. - the intense agina over having some male parts."

Comment by Marsha M. Marsha on September 21, 2012 at 7:39pm

Actually Saint Suelle, what she means is without dialtion, the vagina wants to close in, as a wound will, and that is correct. If one does not maintain the dilation regimine the vagina will close up. I know this first hand. Also it does self lubricate, again, I know this first hand, however transwomen have a less viscous lubrication. Technically, as you described, you are correct rhat it is not a true open wound, but it seals off as wound would unless reopened. 

Comment by Galina Edwards on September 22, 2012 at 7:47pm

Jessica, you will have a lot of time to reserch this but S.S. and M.M.M. are correct.  An open wound is messy, bleeds, and painful.  That all goes away unless you do not follow the Drs instructions. LOL most Drs say you can have sex 6 weeks after surgery.  I don't know who would want to, it's still raw (ugly) looking.

I am post op for over a year and I still dialate. I also have a lot of sex so why do I dilate?  I dilate to maintain my deepth and I have (occording to my dr on the one year checkup) have done a great job.  BTW, she said she could tell that I was having the sex I bragged about.  In the beginning she gave me the advice that men are not as big as they think they are and she was right.  Again that is why I dilate.

Oh, when you get that far dilation can be very fun as you dicover the toys that bring you pleasure without a man.

Take care and Hugs, Galina

Comment by Jessica Tafoya on September 24, 2012 at 6:06pm

hmmmm well i was thinking how could you have sex if it is a wound i mean that would just be painful...

Butt i see now mostly there is more research to do :) but any more comments please state how you feel 

on this!

Thank you all!!!

<3

Comment by BJY on September 25, 2012 at 12:04pm

Hi Jessica,

Ten years post-op, things work fine, no issues. As far as being an "open wound"---umm, no. I've ridden across the country and back on a motorcycle, and if you've ever ridden distance, you know that you couldn't do that sitting on an open wound! I dilate three or four times a year to maintain depth and elasticity, but my body has integrated my lady parts quite well, and most of the time I don't even think about it.

Be prepared to purchase more toilet tissue, however. Also be prepared for the inevitable "I have to pee RIGHT NOW and I am in the middle of the woods!" Yes, you can indeed brace your bottom on the rear bumper of a pick-up truck and bend your knees and find blessed relief, if not a large amount of dignity.....

Sex? It's wonderful, fun, and best of all, feels right at long last! You'll love it!

I hope this helps a bit.

Barb

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