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I have noticed in some postings that some of you here have expressed the first time you went out dressed as expressing the "real" you. What I find interesting for me, as someone who might be more appropriately placed in the crossdresser camp, is that it liberated one facet of my personality. I do not feel I am a female at all but just someone who feels the need to present myself on this way on occasion. Albeit on a fairly regular basis.

That duality is important to me and I told myself and my partner that I have no desire to change who I am but just want that other facet of my personality to express itself freely.

 I hope this site continues to welcome those of us whose ultimate goal is not to transition in order to truly be themselves. I do however respect those who feel they do in order to feel whole. We are all different as individuals and have experienced different things in our lives. How we got where we are in life is unique and special and we should all respect each other.

 

Peace,

Joanna

 

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Comment by Jamie Robin Gardner on August 6, 2011 at 7:04pm

Yes, you are welcome here. This world is made of of somany different people one label can not fit, nor should it fit all of us. This site is decated to you, me and others like ourselfs. Feel free to express yoursefl. We learn from each other.

Comment by Caroline Grace on August 7, 2011 at 9:06am

Without a doubt you are more than welcome here.  Here's hoping you will keep blogging and letting us know what's going on in your thinking or your world.  Finding completeness is something I hope we all find quickly.  So welcome....   And I look forward to hearing more from you in the future.

Comment by Bobbi Lombardo on August 7, 2011 at 3:20pm

Joanna,

I can't speak for all of the people on this site but I understand it to be open to all male to female folks no matter where you fall on the silly spectrum.  I may argue with your views and opinions but I do that eaqually to all.  Just ask.  I hope you will continue to state your position on whatever you want to so we all can benifit from a different viewpoint.

 

As to the Cross dressing and duality of gender.  I understand perfectly what you are saying.  30 years ago I spoke the same thoughts and made the same promises based on what I saw to be the truth.  For me though it became clear after many years that this was not the whole truth.  So I moved to the next label on the list and dwelled there for awhile. It took me 40 years to finally realize who I am and to begin the process that is making me feel whole inside.  I do not mean to say that you are not exactly waht you say you are but that for some of us being a Crossdresser was at the time all we needed or wanted but as life moved on we found that it was not the end of the journy for us.

You just be you and don't worry about anyone else.

 

Namaste

Bobbi

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