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To all of my friends and family,

Hello to everyone and I hope that this finds you all in a better state than me. I just wanted to tak a few moments to let you all know that I have not been around on here for a couple weeks and it will probably be longer before I return. My wife was killed in an automobile accident on May 20, 2012 at approximately 12:20am. Also killed were her passenger, my sons girlfriend and the rider of the motorcycle that crashed into them. Investigation is under way to determine what happen but the police officer investigating stated that speed from the motorcycle was a factor and that my wife failed to yeild taking a left turn. We will see what happens within the investigation but the police officer stated that the GXR1000 was traveling approximately 100+mph. All died at the scene. I have been busy trying to keep peace with our sons over my transition and the impending divorce which is no longer necessary, planning the funeral, and figuring everything out including my son graduating last saturday. Please know that I am alive and doing as good as I can though please keep our family in your prayers in this time of tragedy. Now I must get passed all of this so that I may move on to the next stage of and in my life, going full time. I have allot to do and accomplish and I am sure a few setbacks may occur along the way. Love and prayers be with all of you and until we talk again I will truly miss my family here! Love to all. Hugs

~Jessie

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Tags: Life, accident, death, family, prayers

Comment by Caroline Grace on May 31, 2012 at 6:57am

Not sure how anyone can handle tragedies like these except picking to focus on the next major milestone that needs to be accomplished.  I am glad that you had your son's graduation as a minor distraction. Having your sons to worry about could be both a blessing and a burden (simply because you probably don't feel you can't fall apart). My prayers are definitely with you and your loved ones. And I wish there were words that could help. There are no right one, are there?  But I do believe that knowing that people do care and that they can empathize may help some...  So sorry for your losses and your children's losses.

Comment by Kimberly Long on May 31, 2012 at 10:43am

I am so sorry for you and your son.  My prayers are with the two of you.  I wish you the best on working through this.

Love Kimberly

Comment by Lauren Elisabeth Tancyus on May 31, 2012 at 9:55pm

Oh my,I am so sorry to learn that you and your family are going through such a terrible tragedy.I cannot imagine how devistating this must be for all of you.

 Though I don't know you, please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers and I will pray for peace for all of you at this time.

Hugs, Sherri Lynne Tancyus

Comment by Kristina Devereaux on June 2, 2012 at 9:11am

Jessie, my heart goes out to you in these difficult times.  I am so sorry for your loss.

Comment by Erin Detty on June 2, 2012 at 9:29am

I feel so, so bad for you, what a horrible thing to have happen. Life I'm sure has been tough enough for you by the way it sounds, so sad. I will pray for you and yours.  

Comment by Jessie Lynn Esme on June 3, 2012 at 6:35pm

Thank you to all for all of your prayers. This has definately been a surreal experience! I was doin pretty good until the party (Irish style wake) that we threw for her Friday. I was not going to drink but that was not her wishes and then ended up drinking a little to much, not hung over sick but definately a bit drunk. I spent most of the night trying to sleep fitfully after about 1am though it did not work and I kept waking trying to figure out if this was the worst nightmare of my life or actual reallity. Though in the back of my mind I knew it was yet there was a part of my mind that definately did not want to accept it and could not wrap around it. Even all day the next day it was like living in a fog. It was as if I could feel my mind slipping away. I am a bit better today. The four boys and I went through all of her things around the house and gathered it all up packed it for them to take with them and to Raine's parents. It kind of solidified things that this is really happening but I can still feel that peice rebelling against the pain of reality. I will write more later as it helps my mind. Love and hugs!

~Jessie

Comment by Daphne Anne Blake on June 4, 2012 at 9:46am

please take comfort in knowing, I and others will be praying for you to find peace and strength in the troubling days head... my condolences Jessie.

Comment by Miranda James on June 4, 2012 at 11:36pm

My prayers go uot to you and your family!

Comment by Traci O'Gara on June 5, 2012 at 2:17pm

Awww Jessie, that is truly awful!  I'm so sorry for your loss and do wish you the strength to keep yourself together thru all of this....

Traci xoxo

Comment by Jessie Lynn Esme on June 5, 2012 at 10:43pm

Thank you to all that have replied and shared. I am doing a better now that the things are drawing down a bit and slowing. Though when they stop I might worry or just keep myself super busy lol. Hugs

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