I am recently new and have been exploring all the forums and blogs. I have noticed that a lot of you are separated or divorced. This breaks my heart because I just don’t understand. I guess it’s kinda weird that I have to ask questions. I have read about the changes. My question is “Am I missing something?” Because I just don’t understand how the person can change from who they are inside. I understand that my spouse is in the early stages of this and there is more to what I am just seeing. But does the person inside change that much? I have seen her more happy, compassionate, understanding, and emotional, me personally I like that. Also I know that people change over time, I am not the same person I was 13 years ago or matter a fact 4 years ago. I welcome change and know that its a part of life. We all grow up more and more everyday and realize hey I can't be doing this or I need to do this more often and that is how change begins. I am not worried about changes but if I have to meet a whole different person than what I married over night I would like to be prepared. I married the person under the skin not what he looks like on the outside. I love my spouse to pieces and would do anything for her, and I don’t care what changes she makes to the outside of her body and a higher pitched voice, she is still the same person I met 13 years ago and made a family with and married 4 years ago. Right?
Thank you for allowing me to be here