My wife and I love eachother very much and has known about my fem side for 4 years which has strained our marriage but... we both feel that our friendship and compatiablity is truely unique. Over these years my own sexuality, thoughts, desires have evolved to almost exclusively homosexual and possibly transgender through self reflection and therapy. We have spoke of this in couples therapy and it is evident that I am leaning this way. Hit home the other day when she said... " you know we can have sex sometime". She brought up the idea of an open relationship. We both feel that this may be a good option so that each can fulfill their personal needs while still maintaining our life together. Obviously this is ripe with problems and pitfalls. I am interested if anyone is currently in or has experienced this lifestyle?