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since ive came out as being trans ive faced alot of haltered from my mother in law and my family what do you do when youre mother in law slaps you knocking a tooth out what do you do when your family dosent support you or your wife what do you do when someone calls youre wife sloppy manish looking huge phycotic b word what do you do when youre sisters turn there backs on you when you stop a former porn addittion what do you do when youre brother trys to act like you dont exsist what do you do when youre father uses you to do his crap work and use your name to get cable what do you do when it feels to much for you to deal with what do you do to show youre partner that shes worth it and you still find her attractive when the hormones make it not work what do you do when she crys about the pain the family has caused in our lives these are what weve been dealing with me and krista are hurt by what family has caused thank you for reading

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Comment by Dal Maxwell on July 9, 2012 at 4:56pm

Kira - You made the decision, opened the bottle and let the genie out.  Now......you have to be strong and deal with the circumstances you have.  If you knew your family might react this way then there is no surprise.  Your choices are to let them get to you or NOT let them.  That includes your mother-in-law.

As far as her hitting you, that is assault and you had/have every reason to file a complaint.  As to the rest of it I say this to you:  if you remove yourself from their environment then they can only hate you from a distance.  Don't engage them and don't let them engage you.  If they don't get it, can't get it, refuse to get it..........that's THEIR problem.  All you can do is to keep your own family together, love one another and move forward with your plans as you can.

Comment by Vickie Davis on July 9, 2012 at 4:56pm
You do have some cause of action for the police. That might be a good first step.
Comment by Kira Wigley on July 9, 2012 at 7:02pm

i fear for kids that she teaches and drives to dekalb co schools as well one day there may be a trans studant whats she gonna do to them should i tell the school board when it comes back in session

Comment by Rachel King on July 13, 2012 at 8:01am

I'm with Dal, 100%.

Who's the teacher?, we're not mind-readers, more is better when you write a blog.

If it's 50 lines long, at least we'll get a truer picture than the limited amount we now have.

A blog is not a text message.

Abbreviations suck and leave the reader out in the cold, so please expand.

And whoever the teacher is, NO ! Do NOT approach the school board because you will get dragged through the mud, good and proper.

That is a certainty, I reckon.

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