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Today is Oct 28-09. Yesterday, my wife gave me an ultimatum regarding my gender issues. She has brought our kids (both boys aged 15 & 17) into it and has upset them greatly. She did not explain to them why, but told them she was going to break up the family. Both of them started crying and this started me crying as well. So I told her, she wins. I will not be encouraging my feminine side any longer, because I can not bear to see my kids upset. I am now feeling very bad and will not be coming here as much as I used to. Mostly because I no longer have the energy. So if any of you message me or comment and I don't reply, it is not because I'm ignoring you. I may pop in once in a while, but I don't know for sure. So thank you all for your support. I will always think of you.

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Comment by Rachel King on October 28, 2009 at 11:28am
So, the old emotional blackmail trick again, huh.
What a pathetic soul your wife is. How long does she think she can use this lowest of acts on you for.
Sit down with your boys and discuss the issues. You might just find you have two very loving supporters.
Jeez, I detest people who treat others like this and I should mind my own business on this but frankly, I'd tell the cow to go take a jump. Anything in life has GOT to be better than the creature you are stuck with.
What a pathetic excuse for a woman and a mother she is.

Sorry, I have no right to say any of this but it makes my blood boil.
I wish you success and happiness with your boy's and I hope you dump the cow sooner rather than later.
Rachel in Aus
Comment by Paula Daniel Ridge on October 28, 2009 at 1:12pm
Looks like what my other half said to me,using how my yougest son behaved for six months after I started to come out fully. He would shout.show great anger,not eat in the same room,stop bringing his friends around.etc he is 27 and the most centered person that I know. His mommy does every thing for him and gets very upset when I sugest he find his own place to live.He also has a drug problem(my fault) of couse. My therapist has given me the green light to fully transgrender all surgery,s and has offered her support to my wife if she wants to be involved with my life as a person to talk to and council recommendations to other professionals. I did slow down a bit but I know that it is a pause in my life.I do not look forward to divorce but it will be just a matter of time From a Fellow Canadian EH
Comment by Marsha M. Marsha on October 28, 2009 at 1:16pm
Sorry to here this. I also backed away, however it was not a spiteful thing my wife did to me. I understand your decision, but I would hope you continue to get support when you need it from here or a counselour.

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