My wife said she needs some space , starting with having a separate bedroom. She said she is not sure if she can stay with me or not, but right now she needs space to grieve the loss of her husband . I asked her if she wanted to leave me, and she said she could not answer that because she still loves me more than anything. This really hurt me, even though I am behind her 100% if she does want to leave me. I understand. So is this the beginning of the end of our marriage ?? How long do you give someone to make that decision if they want out ?