im Gina Marie Allen/Gerald Platt..i've been this way my whole life...lucky for me i found a friend who cared enough to try to understand me an what i was going thru.she cared enough to marry me. we have a family with two children, two boy's who have grown up knowing their 'dad' was different than all of there friend's dad's. they love me unconditionally..good for me! have been 'out since 1992, and love every aspect of the gender community!..hopefully i can get to know more of you in the future. thank you for allowing me to join your group!