I'm trying to schedule "Bottom" surgery with Dr. Z in June of next year... to me "Bottom" surgery means a butt lift, thigh fat-graft enhancement, and hip fat-graft enhancement... hopefully 40in. around... a good US size 14 at the hips... at least I hope that's what I'm going to get. This reverse pear shape I can do without. With a couple of ribs removed in 2013 and wearing my leather corset, I'll approach that perverbial hour glass shape.
GCS, GRS, SRS, FFS, AFL-CIO, my goodness!... What acronims! Here I'm trying to just survive as a women and I now have to worry about how everyone defines what I've personally done to my body (surgically or not) to put me into some sort of classification.
Nah, I don't think so.
What is or is not between my legs is my affair. Alone. Just as what is or is not between the legs of others is their affair. Alone. I've decided what terminology I will use to describe myself. I am not going to push anything on anyone else; I have trouble running my own life, I'll be d-mned if I try to run someone else's. My guiding principle in everything I do is..."to pass is not the thing.... to pass is EVERYTHING"... affecting employment, living conditions, whether you get the h--- beat out of you or are killed, or whether you are accepted in the so much larger human community by other people.
Sincerely, from the real world,