So... We have decided that we want to have another baby. This is ultimately my choice although I already knew my wife wanted another child. I can not bare the thought of Kai growing up in this world alone. Even though my relationship with my sisters is not the greatest at this time I would not want to deny Kai the chance to experience having a sibling. There always seems to be hesitation from the trans guy community towards guys like myself having children. It is not something that a guy like myself should do. I look for more support from the trans lady community. More to come. We plan to get my surgery done before we get pregnant, that will provide the most comfort for me.