Out with my bff gg gf Halloween night; both wearing purple; me with purple hair, white dress with purple flowers, and my purple stockings and purple handbag. A violet bra underneath. I was surprised to see the size on the bra 42D, and I filled it fairly well; I really think it was marked wrong, so I added my 1/2inch foam cups. I took her driving for errands and put 88 miles on the car this evening. We had dinner at 7. As usual I had a fairly small dinner - my appetite is far less than it was formerly. After we finished, we couldn't gamble since neither of us had the money, being just before our SS checks and my biweekly paycheck.. I suggested we go over to the lounge and maybe we could pick up a guy. Something we have talked about before, and even doing escorts. So I bought us both a drink, vodka cranberry for her and white zin wine for me. Pretty soon this guy comes along, stops by our table and makes complimentary commments, so we engage him in conversation. he finally insists we all move to the bar, taking my arm and walking me over to the bar, then going back to get her. She told him her cane was mine, and didn't use it while he was with us. We also lied about our ages. He is 59 and I got him to buy 55 for us (me 77, her also 77.) So he bought us drinks, we sat and chatted, and I was flirting outrageously with him; she is much more reserved. But he was interested in her. So they finally agreed for a first date on Friday, when I'm working. Now in the conversation and while she was gone to the Ladies; he asked me if he really should take her out and I told him I thought he would have a good time with her. He was certainly enjoying our company. After a while later he wanted to take us to dinher, but I said we already ate. So we compromised on coffee and ice cream, from which I had to abstain due to my high sugar at that time. He also discussed taking us both out with him some time while she was gone. I told him that we had discussed doing that with a guy, and I would be happy to, but didn't want to cut into her with the Friday date; besides I had to work. He got her phone number. We took lots of pictures while we were getting our coffee and ice cream; and he called her back when I was driving her home.
While we were still eating, an obvious lezzie came over and engaged my friend in conversation, then asked if I was John's wife. I moved up against him and said: "Not Yet!" Then she was trying to figure out among the three of us who was with who, and was obviously hitting on my gf K, who was oblivious, but John noticed it. I confirmed to them that she was lez.
(Who am I to talk because I am lez and maybe bi.) I so enjoyed his strong arms around me, and sitting up against him and the repartee. I told my gf if I had SRS I would have gone home with him and made love all night. So maybe I'm not so lez after all. But for me, the real boost was that: I was with a man who enjoyed my company, and he fully accepted me as a woman, not knowing I was trans.
Of course, this is a big issue for all of us: "When do you tell someone, or if you had SRS, do you tell?" And I know that some people think it entirely dishonest to not reveal yourself up front.
He obviously did not want anything to do with this gay woman and said so, which would make me fearful of dating him, for fear he would attack me violently if he found out....that is the big risk we take. On the other hand, he seemed to really like me, and maybe it wouldn't matter to him - if he was able to accept a former male as a real woman.
It always amazes me that I get more attention than my stunningly beautiful gf, but she says it is my openness and personality. I have been called beautiful to my face by people I don't even know twice in the last two days; and this is not an uncommon thing. The gay lady also insisted on taking our pictures, but wouldn't let us take hers.
John is a very good looking man, is in real estate, sold his ranch in Texas 3 years ago, and is living here with his 91 yr old mother and baby sister.(she is 40.) So we have in all likelihood another evening or evenings with him together.
He said when he called, that if she didn't want to go out Friday, he would understand. He told me he was scared of first dates. I told him there is no way around having a first date.