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I met this really cute guy when I went to get gas about two months ago.  He is an attendant in the convenience store that also sells gas.  He has always been more than helful and always goes out of his way to ask me what I have been doing lately or just to start a conversation.  He knows I'm a transgender person but it doesn't seem to bother him.  He asks me to wait while he waits on another customer so we can continue our conversation.  I keep looking directly into his wonderful brown eyes…

Seasons greetings PINKessence friends,

It is that time of year, when we are getting ready for the holidays and out shopping for our loved one's that we reflect on our appreciation for their thoughtfulness, love and caring they have given to us.

Throughout the year, I get many letters of gratitude and thoughtful appreciation for the work that goes into building and…

I nearly choked on my cold gold when I read Chloe's request for assistance with donations and her statement that only 6 individuals have contributed of late in keeping Pe running.

What sort of person has the gall to take advantage of this beautiful site with all it's assistance, it's support and it's opportunity to meet like people in such a way and then turn their back in helping keep Pe going.

In Oztralia, we have a name for such people, they are called bludgers, it's an…

Just moments ago, my local Channel 4 KOMO news just made a big stink about a 45 year old TG woman, in their words, "WAS BORN AS A MAN!!!" their emphasis, not mine,  using the womens locker room at a pool facility near Olympia WA.  Apparently,  a young girl 'SAW THE MAN NAKED' and told the mother who then called police.  

So to the credit of the school (and police), they offered that the TG student was legally protected and there was nothing they could do.  I view this as progress, and…

Having a female brain in no way guarantees one understanding of certain things until actually living the life. Like the whole nature vs. nurture debate, some things are innate and others just have to be learned, often the hard way. Being born gonadally and endocrinally challenged virtually guarantees a bevy of opportunities to learn the hard way, or at least with a New Jersey assload of redacted opinions and practices. If a bunch of words have to be made up in the process, so be…

Hi Ladies,as i lay here in my bed at 12:30am, being besieged by zingers from my recent Grs Surgery ,and still battling the soreness.I guess i am a slow healer.As you know i have a fondness for making rankings & lists.Here I present you with my personal list of the top 15 most gorgeous and stunning Trans woman i have come to know about.Please keep in mind this list is by no means reflective of PE or any individual.It is my own personal picks.Paula P

15.CANDY DARLING…

Something about Bill O’Reilly really pisses me off. I’d say it’s hard to put my finger on it, but it’s kind of already there and hard to deny. I know, I could be talking about anything right now, can’t I? This time it’s about the character Unique on ‘Glee’. How have I avoided talking about last spring’s latest diversity inclusion on my favorite progressive hit TV show? I must be off my game or something.

For you culturally confounding people who read my blog, but for some reason don’t…

  Provider, Father, Husband, Myself... Any of us who started a family, hoping this thing inside would go away only to find at some point you can't push it away any longer finds theirselves in a horrible place. All my life I knew deep down who and what I was inside.  No matter how hard I try. She slips out little by little. I created a wonderful life. Good job, Beautiful wife, Kids, Now in my mid 30's, I feel stuck. Do I throw it all away to be true to myself? Or do I be misurable to only be…

Most common reason why some  photos are not being approved

A lot of photos are STILL being submitted w/o a real title* and/or with no description.

BOTH are required. Typing a long description as the title will not work. Your…

Chloe Prince has established this wonderful mansion called Pink Essence as a sort of TransWomen's Shelter for transwomen who have been abused by life and are looking for support so we may be able to return to the world equipped for living within the gender of our choosing on our terms. But anyplace where…

I lived and I passed as a female for three years. My GG taught me well about perception and confidence. She had done so well in her teachings, that on one of our many "girls' night out" adventures, I had two guys trying their hardest to win my attention. One became so bold, he pulled me to him and stuck his tongue as far down my throat as he could. I had first attempted to push him away, but... He was actually really good at it!

I would have guys actually run in front of me…

I find myself in a place where I have only read of others arriving at, but rarely ever escaping from – Divorced, Bankrupt, Foreclosed upon, Workforce reduced from my job, and a prisoner of my own body, and yet... I smile.

I am thankful to God.  He has seen…

I just found a most interesting (non sleazy) site dedicated to tall women.

http://www.tallwomen.org/twotm/





It is a fairly well done collection of information in support of women who are taller than 'average'. Being 6' 2 myself, I have always heard my inner voice tell me that I'm too tall to ever transition. My height has been one of the things I have always resented and kept me from seriously considering a transition many…

I was inspired by Lana's blog, Colorblind. So I thought I would copy this article from my web site that I wrote a couple of years ago.

Wow,…