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Stacy Lane
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"Happy Birthday!!! :)"
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"Happy Birthday!!!"
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Stacy Lane commented on Zoe A. Tipsword (Farren)'s blog post Me and Dr. Oz?
"STFU!  THAT'S AWESOME!"
Mar 6, 2012
Stacy Lane commented on Michelle Wolf's blog post The Tao of Moobs
"Munt?  That's hilarious!  Never heard that one.  Yet, it seems so obvious.  ;)"
Mar 6, 2012
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Stacy Lane commented on Breanna Sapphire's blog post Wholeness
"Brilliant. And lovely."
Mar 6, 2012
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Sharon KathyJo commented on Stacy Lane's blog post Jerry Springer Ruined My Life
"Yes, springer and the like did hinder my ability to understand myself...  I've watched it recently and I think that the trans people on there are drama class students playing at being transgender.  I mean, how many transwomen do you…"
Mar 5, 2012
Stacy Lane commented on Stacy Lane's blog post Jerry Springer Ruined My Life
"Excellent comments, all!   While "ruined" was a bit wink-wink, it is amazing how young minds are influenced by pop media, or media in general.  It seems that recently, every time I see something about trans on the, ahem,…"
Mar 5, 2012
Stacy Lane commented on Dal Maxwell's blog post Being a large Jewish intellectual with cooking (and other) skills has RUINED my life!
"That's the truth, Daralyn. With my personality, I am going to have some fun with the humor of it all. After...you know...I turn my SO's world upside down. Great advice, though!"
Mar 5, 2012
Molly Vaughan commented on Stacy Lane's blog post Jerry Springer Ruined My Life
"I think the internet really has altered the social understanding of the trans community.  I remember in undergrad sitting at a coffee shop with two older guys I hung out with, and one of them began to discuss a dress they had brought while out…"
Mar 4, 2012
Jillian Munsell commented on Stacy Lane's blog post Jerry Springer Ruined My Life
"Although I'm dating myself Stacy, I can clearly recall an episode on the Phil Donahue show where he had a transsexual woman as a guest for the entire show. She was stunning, articulate, funny and to me inspiring. It too seared in my brain, as I…"
Mar 4, 2012
LAINIE NELSON liked Stacy Lane's blog post Jerry Springer Ruined My Life
Mar 4, 2012

Profile Information

I am a:
Male to Female Transgender Person
I Express My Gender Variance:
In The Closet Only!
My Gender Status is:
Experimenting Transgender (Possibly taking hormones prescribed or “Do-it-yourself” – May be “in “or “unable” to start therapy – Possibly questioning or self diagnosing as transsexual – May be presenting full or part time as a female)
Relationship Status:
Married (with Children)
I am interested in:
Support Groups, Friends, Activism
I am NOT interested in:
Camming, Exchanging Pics, Smokers, Drinking, Marriage, Swingers, Clubbing
100 Words About Me:
Just trying to come to terms with who I am. Exploring options and building confidence and courage. I'm an attorney and an agented author. Oh, and I'm experiencing the worst dysphoria I've ever had and in the meantime, my wife is about to give birth to our first. So...super timing.

Stacy Lane's Blog

Jerry Springer Ruined My Life

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 9:00pm 8 Comments

Okay, ruined might be a stretch.

All things considering, my life has had its moments. 

But I often wonder what life would have been like had I not seen the horror of how trans was presented on Jerry Springer. 

My Girlfriend is a Man! 

Those images of leopard clad, painted-faced transsexuals smacking their gum with their stop sign lips and throwing right hooks like George Foreman seared into my pre-teen mind in a very powerful way.  In a very…

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Someone hand me an Oscar!

Posted on February 28, 2012 at 8:24am 10 Comments

As I ponder my place on the gender spectrum, one of my biggest worries is if I will be good at being a woman.

I weigh that against my current role that, while doesn't feel genuine, causing me inner stress and dysphoria, to the world I'm the fun guy to hang around, the life of the party.

In short, I'm good at playing me as a man.  Oscar worthy, even.

Ugh.  The life of a character actor, amiright?

I know, I know.  I'll still be me.  I'll always be me.  "I'yam what…

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My House of Cards

Posted on February 26, 2012 at 2:00pm 17 Comments

I am the cliche, and yet, somehow, I find comfort in that.  In a time when identity seems so elusive, so out of my control, I know that somewhere in the world there are others just like me.

Just like me - a thirty-something, secondary transexual, who's built a life, got married, got the job, and now I have a kid on the way, due next month.

And all I can think about is this rotting feeling inside; that hollow nothing that leaves me an emotional shell.

"What's…

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At 2:41pm on April 23, 2013, Adeena Dawn Forrester said…

Happy Birthday!!! :)

At 11:35am on April 23, 2012, Adeena Dawn Forrester said…

Happy Birthday!!!

At 1:07pm on March 1, 2012, Regina M. Dobson said…

Thanks Stacy,  Feel free to ask anytime

At 8:02pm on February 27, 2012, Sarah Free said…

so true Stacy :)

At 12:53pm on February 13, 2012, Marsha M. Marsha said…

Welcome Stacy to PE It is nice to have you join our compassionate and knowledgeable membership. Please peruse the site and become familiar with our many groups and forums which, along with the amazing people, make this the greatest among transgender support sites.

Hugs,

Marsha

At 9:41pm on February 12, 2012, Lana Moore said…

Dear Stacy... welcome, I'm so glad you're here! PINKessence is one of the largest and fastest growing social networks for women. Please make yourself at home and don't hesitate to contact me if you have any questions or concerns. ~Lana

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