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Important Question - Please Respond!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Matthew Mitchell May 18, 2011. 19 Replies 1 Like

Hi Girls -I have an important question for everyone who is either transitioning or has transitioned - I'm not sure exactly how to word it but I'll do my best. First, I'd like to preface where I…Read More

Tags: decisions, confusion, courage, transition

Who to go to for FFS?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Matthew Mitchell May 12, 2011. 12 Replies 0 Likes

Hi Girls -As I began my transition journey, I'm faced with more decisions. Hormones - that's easy...find a great reputable endocrinologist specializing in F to M. FFS - that's more difficult.I see…Read More

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"My two biggest negative emotions that I've experienced through all of this is ANGER and SADNESS. Probably anger mostly because I could not control it. My anger would manifest into all sorts of unhealthy ways. Then I would be…"

May 10, 2012

Candace Lane commented on Matthew Mitchell's blog post “SO…..How’s that working for you?”

"Your Aunt is wise and right. While I am certain that I must transition, it doesn't stop me from worrying. Thank God for Dr. Gina, my therapist! I am certain they will continue to do so Matthew!"

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"thank you for the friending Matthew! dont forget to read my profile."

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Traci O'Gara commented on Matthew Mitchell's blog post “SO…..How’s that working for you?”

"Matthew, in addition to proceeding slowly, it is also very important to have a "plan" as in being in a good financial position (a steady job) and a solid network of reliable people to pick you up when you fall! It can be quite…"

May 9, 2012

Michelle Wolf commented on Matthew Mitchell's blog post “SO…..How’s that working for you?”

"Hi sweetie, oh how your story tugged at my heart! The beauty of PE and just meeting other trans people in general is that we get to see our own stories reflected so clearly on someone else’s face. My own story is very similar to yours, less a…"

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Matthew Mitchell commented on Matthew Mitchell's blog post “SO…..How’s that working for you?”

"Thanks, Traci. I'm learning to breathe and be present more. There are days though when the dysphoria is more pronounced and those are the days I get anxious or depressed. I have a history of barreling into things head first at 100mph. So I…"

May 8, 2012

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I am a:: Male to Female Transgender Person

I Express My Gender Variance:: In The Closet Only!

My Gender Status is:: Experimenting Transgender (Possibly taking hormones prescribed or “Do-it-yourself” – May be “in “or “unable” to start therapy – Possibly questioning or self diagnosing as transsexual – May be presenting full or part time as a female)

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100 Words About Me:: I am 37 years old, married for 5 years with two beautiful children. I've been in therapy for 2 years now, finally coming to terms with my gender dysphoria. I've had the disconnected and uncomfortable feelings my whole life but up until therapy, could not put a name on it. I'm exploring my options now, living in the moment and being grateful for all that I have. Life is fun and we are meant to be happy! I am so thankful to have found this site - my "sisters" have forged the path for me with their courage to be completely authentic. I'm on an exciting journey - one that I know will bring me feelings of joy and peace I've been looking for my whole life. I believe that other areas of my life will open up with amazing possiblities and success - all due directly to my courage to transition. My wife is absolutely amazing - that's a story in itself. We're not sure if we will continue being married, but we do know we will always be best friends - she supports me 100%. I've yet to tell my family other than a very close Aunt. She was nothing short of amazing in her loving and affectionate way to tell me she is behind me without any judgements. For me, this is a spiritual journey - I've had signs from Angels I am on the right path and I'm more connected to my source than ever before. Someday, I feel I will share my journey in a very big way to help others. That's what it's all about anyways! I love all of you - so very beautiful and courageous!! What amazing souls there are on here!

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Suicide Rate Question????

Posted on May 5, 2012 at 12:28am 8 Comments 0 Likes

I'm sorry that this is a rather unpleasant topic but I'm hoping I can get some clear answers on the TG attempted suicide rate. Some folks are throwing around 41%, some 50%. However, I do not find much info to back these numbers up nor can I find more info on the study itself.. Is the 41% BEFORE transition? I would hope so as the whole reason to transition is to be happier. Mark Twain said that there are lies, damn lies and statistics. However, I have attempted suicide and it was…

“SO…..How’s that working for you?”

Posted on May 3, 2012 at 9:29pm 12 Comments 6 Likes

I’ve been meaning to write another blog post for some time. I’m sure all the “regulars” on PE see some of us come and go and wonder if/when we will be back. Some, who are farther in your TG journey than me, may simply think that it’s only a matter of time before I return. What I mean by that is someone on PE (and elsewhere) once made the comment “it’s not IF you will transition, it’s WHEN.” I took offense to that early on because I thought “Oh hell no, I can cope with this, I can deal…

Believing in Myself ALWAYS Matters

Posted on August 16, 2011 at 3:31pm 8 Comments 4 Likes

So it’s been some time since I last blogged on PE. Lots has happened since I got back from Key West. While I thoroughly enjoyed my time by myself to reflect and ponder my journey, I was so happy to get back home to see my kiddos and wife. However, as I expected, my wife was not so thrilled with me being back. Not that she was not happy to see me, but I had been gone for 3 weeks and there was an underlying resentment for me leaving. I’ve learned that I cannot…

Therapist recommending anti-anxiety medication BEFORE HRT...

Posted on July 16, 2011 at 12:33am 7 Comments 0 Likes

I've been back now for 2 weeks from my vacation in Key West. I've had no problem transitioning (no pun intended) back into my routine. My business has picked up and I was so happy to see my family. I had a serious perma-grin on my face the first few days back. Just seeing my kids smile and hang all over me and kiss me is my everything.

While in Key West, I felt very centered and confident that the next step for me is HRT. I met with my therapist this week and walked in confidently,… Read More

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At 1:33pm on November 30, 2012, Kelly Ann Michaels said…: I hope you are doing ok. I know where you are coming from. I was there myself. What may help you is that what you feel is just the way you where made. And Its OK!. If you need or have a question or two just let me know. Have a great day.

KellyAnn

At 6:39pm on May 9, 2012, Daphne Anne Blake said…: thank you for the friending Matthew! dont forget to read my profile.

At 2:23pm on January 3, 2012, Nicole Aime said…: Matthew, It was so good to see your comment on a blog today. It's been a while. Glad things are going well for you and your family. My wife and I have grown closer together over that last 3 months, perhaps because of all the trials and tribulations of life that we face together as a team - caring for a father in law after a stroke, my wife's breast cancer, my cataracts - and I have told more people about being transsexual. Life is as good as we make it, and you seem to be making the most of it. Go well.

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At 1:39pm on September 4, 2011, Sadnya Pat said…: Hi there,

Hope all is fine at ur end. Hope to hear from u soon.

Hugs

Sadnya

At 11:40am on August 11, 2011, Sadnya Pat said…: Hi Matt ..your blogs are very well written. would love to know more about you.

Hope we can be frds. Sadnya

At 3:18pm on August 6, 2011, Zoe A. Tipsword (Farren) said…: Hi there :) hope your doing well. So when do we find out a name for u ;) and if you need any help or advice on anything just ask :)

At 2:55pm on August 6, 2011, Jamie Robin Gardner said…: Matthew, I have not seen you post for several weeks and hope this note firnds you well. I alway enjoy your wrttings, you have a very clear and understandable writting style. Hope to hear from you soon

At 7:59am on July 17, 2011, Stephani Krzysik said…: Matthew, patience is a virtue. Many feel that they need to be a woman yesterday. You are if you firmly believe in your heart and soul. All that is missing is changing a few physical parts.

You have many issues to deal with right now. I waited till I was 52 to take my final steps. I was a teacher now retired. My late spouse had tons of major health issues and I was their 24/7/365 caregiver.

I battled depression, obesity, and other issues. Before, I could finish my journey, I needed to pull myself out of this nose dive, lose weight, overcome paranoia, and dealt with a non accepting family. The one thing that I had working for me was my intelligence. I used this to overcome the many issues that I faced. A plan was developed when I began to transition. Going full time did not happen right away. I spent nearly a year prepping myself. I lost weight, underwent laser hair treatments, went to therapy, and began to prepare my friends and family prior to going full time.

I was confident in my plan. I was fortunate that I did not hit many roadblocks. The one major area of despair was when my spouse passed away. Her death provided me with the necessary funds to complete my transition.

Matthew, you must first find peace within yourself. Take one day at a time but still keep your journey's end in mind. Keep your wife in the loop. Chances are that you 2 will go your separate ways but you both need to be on the same page when it comes to your children. They need to be your main concern. Show them honesty, communicate and love them.

Each person's journey is different. Not only will the road be different but so will the length. The ultimate goal is reaching inner peace and getting to where you want to be. SRS is the ultimate step and goal.

I hope that over time that you will reach your journey's end.

Peace, Steph

At 10:41pm on July 16, 2011, Nicole Aime said…: Matthew, Try getting in touch with Dallas. She suffered with debilitating depression and anxiety for a long time. She doesn't stop in here at Pe much anymore. She's more active on FB. Tell her I sent ya. - Hugs