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Jeff Smith
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Jeff Smith commented on Olivia Loren's photo
Another first...
"Your doing great, your gonna have to deal with being hit on by a lot of men, better get ready!"
Jeff Smith commented on Diane Schutt's blog post The Beginning of the End"Diane, while I haven't been through this, I know of a few girls who have. As painful as it sounds, being transgendered means evolving, reinventing yourself, and in some extremely harsh cases, rising from the ashes. Not that I'm qualified,…"
"Jeff,
You are a really nice person... Thanks for being here.
Caroline"
Lisa Lesher left a comment for Jeff Smith"Thank you for the warm welcome. I can't wait to get to know the fine people here.
Huggz Lisa"
Jeff Smith left a comment for Lisa Lesher"Welcome Lisa, there are some great people on this site, along with alot of resources, once you learn to navigate, you should feel right at home. Yours Jeff"
Jeff Smith commented on Nichole D'Angelo's blog post A long journey passing through a milestone."Nichole, Congratulations on this milestone, you not only look beautiful, you look HAPPY, hope your recovery goes smooth, and the Holiday season that isn't too far off, is the best one ever. Jeff"
Jeff Smith commented on Holly Muczynski's blog post What a rough 2 months !!"Holly, I know your getting your head kicked in, I'm sorry to hear that. We all have been there in some capacity, some, more extreme than others. Focus on the the positive things going on in your life, it doesn't matter if they are small or…"
Jeff Smith left a comment for Cathrine Renee Wallace"Happy Birthday Cathrine, hope your enjoying it !!!!"
Jeff Smith left a comment for Jodie Lynn Rogers"Welcome Delilah, There are many amazing people here to share, talk and if need be, lean on a bit. It's nice to see you joined. Jeff"
Jeff Smith commented on debbie's photo
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"Debbie, your looking good, you should be very proud of yourself. Best wishes Jeff"
Jeff Smith commented on Susan Burgoff's photo
Summer Heat !
"Susan, love following your progress, you get more beautiful every day, best wishes Jeff"
Profile Information
- I am a:
- Admirer of Transgender Women
- I Express My Gender Variance:
- Genetic Born Non-Transgender Person
- My Gender Status is:
- CIS-Gender Genetic Born MALE (Non-Transgender individual whose gender identity and behavior or role is congruent with their gender assigned at birth)
- Relationship Status:
- Divorced (Kids are Grown)
- I am interested in:
- Out Reach, Friends, Dating, Religious Views, Political Views, Dancing, Public Functions, Private Functions
- I am NOT interested in:
- Religious Views
- 100 Words About Me:
- I have met several Transgendered people over the years, I have always been impressed with their courage and felt for them about the unfair pain caused by family, friends and society. I am a firm beiever that ignorance is the main cause for many of the worlds problems. They don't understand it, therefor this make fun or abuse it. I know as bad as it seems today, things have came along way in the last 20 or 25 years. There is still a long way to go, but Rome wasn't built in a day. The more society gets better informed about gender issues and familier with it, the barriers will slowly come down, similar to the Berlin Wall. It didn't fall over night, 20 or 30 years of people finding out the truth, that the democracy wasn't bad, people the were nice, the truth came out and the wall crumbled. Some of the nicest people I have ever met are transgendered. I hope someday saying the word Transgendered will be held in the same context as she is asian, he's a republican, they are Omish, he's tall, just an non offensive way to describe them, with no negative undertones. I would really like to be a member, am I a Senator or someone with major pull or connections, no. In truth you don't need a guy like myself, but the foundation of the movement is advanced with millions of guys just like me. I have a friend who works with a m to f. He talked so much hate and anger about her, he and others made her life hell. Over the period of several months, he and i talked, While he's still mixed up about gender issues. I got him to think a little, about the person, about the courage, about how cool it was to have someone different, he said she was a real sharp system anyalst. I convinced him to embrace her, not run, he was scared to be seen talking or associating with her, because of ridicule. I told him be secure in yourself, the people making the most trouble were the ones with problems. I will never let anyone tell me who I can and cannot associate with, maybe if you get to know her, you'd like her. I know many of my so called NORMAL coworkers, I don't care for, they aren't nice people they are jerks, live and let live. I'm going to close now this is getting long. If you read this in it's entirety thankyou for taking the time, and if you turn me down for membership, so be it. I will still speak highly of your website. Thankyou Jeff Smith
Jeff Smith's Blog
Common Mistakes when Transitoning
Posted on April 25, 2011 at 2:54am 5 Comments 4 Likes
I read all these blogs about the hardships when transitioning, The one common thread thats stands out, is how while they carefully calculate timetables and expenses there is one thing that is very commonly overlooked, and turns out to be very painfull, it seems in most cases not all, but many could have been avoided if not at least minimalized.
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Comment Wall (12 comments)
- At 3:56am on October 24, 2011,
Caroline Grace said…
Jeff,
You are a really nice person... Thanks for being here.
Caroline
- At 11:40pm on October 23, 2011, Lisa Lesher said…
Thank you for the warm welcome. I can't wait to get to know the fine people here.
Huggz Lisa
- At 8:12pm on July 23, 2011,
Susan Burgoff said… - Thanks for the nice comments Jeff
- At 2:45pm on July 19, 2011,
Lisa Turner said… - Thank you for the birthday wishes :) I see I missed yours, so Happy Belated Birthday !!!! I hope it was a great one :)
- At 7:31am on July 17, 2011,
Juli Hendrix said… - Happy Birthday Jeff!
It's so wonderful having allies like you on PINKessence!
***HUGS***,
Juli
- At 2:02am on July 16, 2011,
Adeena Dawn Forrester said… - Happy Birthday!!!
- At 10:00am on April 30, 2011,
Isis Win said… - Jeff:
I don't feel animosity against males or anything similar. I appreciate your interest very much but these are my reasons not to add anyone here.
The only reason I may have to add someone is because I know the person (personally) well and for a long time, is near (driving distance) my location and we have similar lifestyles, preferences, etc. It's been a long time I ceased my activity in the internet due to real life time constraints. I rarely spend time in front of the computer and if I do, is for work. I have no interest in pen pals (same reason) and I am looking for a relationship of any kind. If you look at my situation from this side of the fence all you can see is that I melded my old lifestyle with my newer status, therefore, my life is as full as it can be. If I exist in this site is not more than reaching those sisters that within reach so they know about myself or old friends find me. So, it is not anything else.
Once again, thank you but I see no potential in adding you since it would be as it has been for a long time. Just another name in our rosters. I despise doing that for that sake. I thank you for your interest and note.
Good luck!
Isis
- At 9:18am on April 25, 2011,
Regina M. Dobson said…
- HI Jeff,
It was nice meeting you Saturday, glad to have you as a "friend"
Regina
- At 12:25am on April 25, 2011,
Rachel King said… - Jeff,
We have the privilege of but a few males as members and your contribution in your writings is most welcome.
We need a balance of views because it is easy for us to fall into the trap of thinking our view is the only view when it comes to transgender issues.
I was impressed with how you worded your reply to Zoe, who is having more than her fair share of problems at this time.
I would ask if you would consider copying and pasting those words and creating your own blog as they will get lost amongst another's blog.
In months and years to come, the blogs written here are going to become the guiding light for many members to read and learn about themselves and become better able to handle the trials they will have to face in an uncertain future.
Thank you for your consideration.
- At 9:20am on December 19, 2010,
Tracilyn Michael said… thx for the invite jeff. =)
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