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Scared, Alone, Confused

Started this discussion. Last reply by Candace Lane Nov 29, 2012. 6 Replies

A bit of background. My cousin told me about ten years ago that he wanted to be a she. I was flabbergasted, but I learned what I could from her. And soon enough, I realized that everything I loved…Read More

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Amanda Beth Miller left a comment for Elizabeth Hanks
"Happy Birthday Elizabeth!  You're a very special individual. Hugs, Mandy"
Mar 14
Julia left a comment for Elizabeth Hanks
"Dear Elizabeth, I wish you a happy birthday and hope you enjoy your great day! May all your wishes, hopes and dreams come true you have for th new year in your life! Love & hugs! Julia"
Mar 14
Victoria Smith liked Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
Nov 29, 2012
Candace Lane replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"Elizabeth, I am truly sorry that it didn't work out for you. *hugs* I wish I had some insight to help ease the pain. Truth is, only she knows why she did it. It may not have had anything to do with you. As the others, I am happy that you still…"
Nov 29, 2012
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Nov 28, 2012
Charlett Jensen replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"Sorry to hear about your friend. There can be all kinds of reasons she left from being jealous of your marriage and the relationship to your husband to her not knowing what the hell she wants. Myself I dont share very well that way. What I do think…"
Nov 25, 2012
Natalia Vega replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"Wow Elizabeth! Just like you were honored having your cousing confide in you, I am honored to have you in our corner. I am sorry to hear about your girlfriend. It seems to me that, not unlike many of us, she was going through the stage where she was…"
Nov 21, 2012
Kelli Murphy replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"That sucks. You are really pretty so that is dumb...lol ..not that I know you. Keep the faith!"
Oct 20, 2012
Elizabeth Hanks is now a Contact of Madison Renee Laed, Brittany C., Sarah Katherine and Kimberlyannofgeorgia more
Aug 5, 2012
Elizabeth Hanks replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"Well, as an update, my girlfriend left me for another TG/TS, one that I happen to think is toxic in a number of ways. Maybe I was too helpful, doing research for her and the like. Maybe I smothered her. I know she wasn't used to a bisexual…"
Aug 4, 2012
Donna Marie Hicks replied to Elizabeth Hanks's discussion Scared, Alone, Confused
"I would like to welcome you first Elizabeth and glad that we have you as a supporter, I am very glad to hear that you are looking for help in this situation but as to your lover not sure what you mean by acting weird and no real information about…"
Aug 3, 2012
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Jul 29, 2012
Elizabeth Hanks left a comment for Megan Strickland
"I'm cis with a TS girlfriend. I know it can be hard. I don't understand her at all sometimes, and it's really difficult to find people like me who can't figure out how to proceed; are we doing too much? Too little? What?…"
Jul 23, 2012
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Scared, Alone, Confused

A bit of background. My cousin told me about ten years ago that he wanted to be a she. I was flabbergasted, but I learned what I could from her. And soon enough, I realized that everything I loved about her and everything she'd taught me was the same either way, and more than anything I was honored to be one of the only people she told at first, and that I didn't give a crap if she wanted to turn into a Care Bear as long as she was still the same person mentally. (She didn't tell anyone else…See More
Jul 19, 2012
Marsha M. Marsha left a comment for Elizabeth Hanks
"Welcome Elizabeth to PE It is nice to have a supporter join our compassionate and knowledgeable membership. Take a look at your profile settings and determine how private you would like to make your page. Pink Essence can not guarantee if all…"
Jul 11, 2012

Profile Information

I am a:
Supportive Family Member of a Transgender Person
I Express My Gender Variance:
Genetic Born Non-Transgender Person
My Gender Status is:
CIS-Gender Genetic Born FEMALE (Non-Transgender individual whose gender identity and behavior or role is congruent with their gender assigned at birth)
Relationship Status:
In Relationship but Still Looking.
I am interested in:
Out Reach, Support Groups, Friends
I am NOT interested in:
Camming, Exchanging Pics, Men, Seeking Singles, Swingers, Cross Dressers, Sissy’s, Fetishes, Public Functions, Private Functions, Activism, Political Views, Religious Views
100 Words About Me:
I am looking for a family based on polyfidelity. My cousin and a few of my friends are transgendered. I worry about them and wonder how I can help them and understand them better. I'm also acquiring more MtF friends and want to understand and show support to them, too. I had originally joined PINKessence because I had a lovely girlfriend that was TS and that I adored, but she ditched me for someone else, also TG. However, that doesn't mean I don't want to show support for all transgendered and transsexual people.

A Little More About Me

I am very active in my local BDSM community, which is where I met my gorgeous girlfriend. Through her, I'm meeting even more trans people (So far only MtF) who are quickly becoming my friends, so that means I get to be the "token cis-girl", lol, and have even more people to worry about. 

I'm a worrier. Can't help it. And to be friends with me is to be mother-henned by me. At least everyone knows my concern comes from a good place. Even if I can be irritating. ^_^

My girlfriend has become a member of our family, and my husband thinks she's awesome. (Especially since she's the only one interested in babbling about certain rpg's and online games with him.) 

My girl is a lesbian, and he's very monogamous, so there's nothing between them. 

I would love to talk to more cis partners of TG'd folk, as there seems to be a dearth of information for us, and would love to know more about similar experiences and challenges. Of course, I would love advice from more TG women on how to make her life, transition and eventual surgery go more smoothly. 

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At 4:21pm on March 14, 2013, Amanda Beth Miller said…

Happy Birthday Elizabeth!  You're a very special individual.

Hugs,

Mandy

At 4:51am on March 14, 2013, Julia said…

Dear Elizabeth,

I wish you a happy birthday and hope you enjoy your great day! May all your wishes, hopes and dreams come true you have for th new year in your life! Love & hugs!

Julia

At 4:37pm on July 11, 2012, Marsha M. Marsha said…

Welcome Elizabeth to PE It is nice to have a supporter join our compassionate and knowledgeable membership. Take a look at your profile settings and determine how private you would like to make your page. Pink Essence can not guarantee if all settings remain defaulted as viewed by all, that information will stay within this ste. Please peruse the site and become familiar with our many groups and forums which, along with the amazing people, make this the greatest among transgender support sites

At 8:59am on July 9, 2012, Lana Moore said…

Dear Elizabeth, thank you for joining PINKessence. We welcome and encourage supportive allys to participate in this social network.

May I suggest that you take a moment to manage your personal privacy settings by clicking on "Settings" in the upper right hand pane of your screen. Please make yourself at home and feel free to contact me if you have any questions or concerns. ~Lana

At 8:57am on July 9, 2012, Julia said…

Dear Elizabeth,

welcome by heart and thanks for supporting not only your dear friends you wrote about on their way, but also so many more people here! Its great and important to have supportive partners and relatives like you and I'm sure you'll find here some other supportive partners you can write to or chat!

Too many of us walk their hard and long way alone or have to fight against their own families and friends as so many don't and and do not want to understand why we have to go this way, our way, to become ourselves! Thanks again so much for being here!

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