Well I wanted to post my experiences at Camp Camp this year. To say the least it was amazing. I discovered camp four years ago on an online search. At the time while trans friendly it was not as welcoming as it has become now. The past two years have seen major shifts in attitude and an opeing for a gender neutral cabin as well as a trans cabin. That makes camp much more accomodation for pre ops and non ops.
The real fun of camp is that you can come and be yourself as much as you like…Read More
It was one year ago today that Sandy Knight Dunkle passed away from complications of bariatric surgery. Sadly I was not with her and her daughter did not manage to notice and revive her in time.
As many of you know she and I had divorced prior to her death at the insistance of her daughter. I cried and was devestated the day we had our hearing. Sandy often said I did not know what love was. Sadly she was wrong.
Love for me was the support both emotionally and physically she…Read More
This will be the first Thanksgiving in my new home in Maine and there is going to be a house full. My partner jan has invited her family to come, it looks like there are going to be 20 people squeezed into our mobile home for dinner. It was my idea to have people over so I get that I should not be upset. Yet somehow I do have a problem. No one in my family is coming. The site distance, money, time etc but I really feel it is also that while I am accepted as who I am I am not 100% accepted.…Read More
This is something I never thought I would be saying. I have been asked to become the Mrs Matter by my partner Rev. jan Matter. I am very happy about the idea and wanted to let everyone know. we have not set any date as yet and plan to wit and see if Maine gets the marriage equality bill passed this year before we set one.Don't expect a big wedding... unless you want to pay on it (Smiles) but we will have some form of ceremony. Hey a gal like me does not often get the chance to be a…Read More