Pre-Op TG (Less than 1yr Under Observation of Therapist NOT taking Hormones)
Married (with Children)
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Recently came out to my wife about what I really feel inside. She new before we got married about the CD'ing but I wasn't sure at the time I want to go all the way with it. That was 14+ years ago. So now I am at the start of all this, getting information, going to therapy, etc... Where this all leads, I have no idea. My wife has told me that if I do become a woman, she will not be able to stay with me. That scares the crap out of me but what can I do about it.
Once therapy starts, I guess we will have to make the finally decision on what to do about our marriage. Should it end, I know I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life.
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Happy Birthday Alicia!
Sorry to hear of your marriage plight.
No easy answer to that one I'm afraid.
Here's hoping that a compromise be reached
and that you can proceed with your transition.
Hi, hon. I'm in a similar situation myself, having come out to my wife last fall after 10 years together. Not sure what the future holds for myself or our relationship, but it's relief to have the conversation out in the open. I'm from Niagara myself, so we're not that far apart if you ever want to talk.
Hi Alicia, I just wanted to send you the warmest thoughts from relatively nearby, as I'm in Guelph. I wish I could offer something of the depth that the other girls here can, but the best I can do is to say that you will never be alone with an incredible community like this.
Hi Alicia, I am in a similar situation. My wife knows about my cross dressing and although I haven't come out to her yet, I have recently figured out that I am transsexual. It scares me to think I could lose 23 years of marriage and quite possibly my kids as well. Good luck to you, and perhaps, with time your wife will come to understand that you are the same person she married and, if you're like me, you feel even better about yourself and can bring more into the relationship. Drop me a line if you'd like to talk more. Hugs Tamara
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